{"id":660,"date":"2023-05-14T13:18:13","date_gmt":"2023-05-14T19:18:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/?p=660"},"modified":"2023-11-06T13:29:17","modified_gmt":"2023-11-06T19:29:17","slug":"who-needs-to-understand-your-self-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/who-needs-to-understand-your-self-care\/","title":{"rendered":"Who needs to understand your self-care?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Who needs to understand your self-care?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The answer is simple! You! (and only you). Everyone else is a wonderful bonus or someone to not worry about. <\/p>\n\n\n

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\"Moira<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Just like people are different (and their values are different) self-care is different. There are a million ways to engage in self-care, based on our own unique values, needs, and disposition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is no one \u201ccorrect\u201d way to do self-care. It\u2019s a \u201cyou do you\u201d situation. (It is, however, a nice bonus if you can learn to set appropriate and respectful boundaries around your self-care so as to also care for others, but that\u2019s another post).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Last week at my weekly (online) movie night we watched Hannah Gadsby\u2019s new show Something Special. <\/em>It was hilarious (as always) and sent me down a minor rabbit hole reading all things Hannah Gadsby online (also as always).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I came across this article<\/a> where Gadsby describes wearing exclusively blue clothes because they feel comfortable that way. What a wonderful act of self-care!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Would wearing only blue clothes be self-care for everyone? Of course not. Does everyone understand why wearing only blue clothes is an act of self-care? No. But do they have to? <\/strong>Also no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just like Hannah Gadsby, you might make self-care choices that other people might or might not understand. And that\u2019s okay – the only person who needs to understand is you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In self-care solidarity,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Jorden\"<\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Who needs to understand your self-care? The answer is simple! You! (and only you). Everyone else is a wonderful bonus or someone to not worry about. Just like people are different (and their values are different) self-care is different. There are a million ways to engage in self-care, based on our own unique values, needs, Read More »<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":662,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"ghostkit_customizer_options":"","ghostkit_custom_css":"","ghostkit_custom_js_head":"","ghostkit_custom_js_foot":"","ghostkit_typography":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"acf":[],"featured_image_src":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/tim-mossholder-WE_Kv_ZB1l0-unsplash-600x400.webp","featured_image_src_square":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/tim-mossholder-WE_Kv_ZB1l0-unsplash-600x600.webp","author_info":{"display_name":"Jorden","author_link":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/author\/shawn\/"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/660"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=660"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/660\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":663,"href":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/660\/revisions\/663"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/662"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=660"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=660"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teachmeselfcare.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=660"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}